EW, RELATIONSHIPS.

Hi,everyone! How are you all on this fine raining day in Britain? I’m pretty good like I’ve just finished writing a blog post on the Artistics which you can find here. It’s a blog post from last weekend with Joanna when I vlogged and took some photos for The Artistics.

So this week has been eventful and well, in good ways and bad. I put my first vlog up which got a lot of good responses and some helpful tips which I’m really happy reading as I’m always open for correction especially with my awful triple chins vlog.

At school, my teachers have been nagging us about revising and well, guess how much I’ve done? None. I know. That’s really not like me but I’ve been so caught up in drama that it’s ruining how well I’m keeping up with blogging and school work.

But I’ve finished with the drama as I need to focus and get this crap sorted out.

I’m going to be honest with you…

I’ve rewritten this post about five times during this week, every time with a different mood or a different opinion but now, I’m just going to say it and maybe I’ll change my opinion later but what ever I’m just going to type it out.

Relationships are a big thing in my teenage community, especially in our school. I’m not one for relationships I don’t think but recently, it’s been playing on my mind..alot.

Yes, I know, I’m only 14 and for me, most teenage couples, disgust me. Especially the ones where it’s all cheesy and so so so so so predictable.

I don’t mind the ones where they aren’t serious and know they aren’t going to be together forever. We all know that teenage relationships rarely stay together but teenagers still freaking put up selfies on instagram saying ‘LOML’

It really pisses me off and I know, someone reading this, probably has done it and I don’t really blame even though after complaining my head off.

You think it’s going to last forever and that you’ll work it out but come on, you’re 14/15/16/17/whatever. You’ve got the rest of your life ahead of you and you move on and meet new people.

I think having a boy/girlfriend is okay at our age but they shouldn’t be serious!

For me, I just want someone to be there for me and understand me, laugh at my jokes and know me. Doesn’t freaking rush things, and doesn’t takes it way too seriously.

I don’t need a boyfriend.

My friends may say that I do but seriously, I think I’m perfectly fine to be a single 14 year old.

And you know what?

Pizza is just perfect for replacing guys.

Hideaway Girl xxx

 

 

 

 

 

 

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27 Comments

  1. sindyblue10

    I agree with you about the don’t rush thing but why go into a relationship when you’re not even serious about it? I understand where you’re getting at because teenage relationships DON’T last but I don’t think being serious about your relationship is necessary bad.
    The annoying thing is when I tell people I don’t have a crush (or that I’m not interested in dating during high school) people look at me like they don’t believe me. Like does a person HAVE to have a crush?
    (on a lighter note PSST fiction got me covered man)

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  2. leonimenday

    Great post! I totally agree with this. People at school seem to think that you won’t completely fit in if you don’t have a boyfriend, but to be honest it’s all rubbish. That time of your life should come when you are ready, not when you are pressured to. x

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  3. Evie

    I love this post. And agree with you 100%. It is annoying how all the people in my school, and probably many other school, only care about who likes who and who’s dating who. Sometimes I just want to scream at them “There are more important things to care about!”
    I think that relationships shouldn’t change how you are around a person. I think the title only changes. Does that make since?
    I am sorry! Now I am rambling on!
    Good post by the way! πŸ™‚

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  4. GeorgieGrl

    Yes! You go girl, I know exactly where you’re coming from.
    Girls in my year have such messy social lives because they all argue over who’s dating who. I tend to hide behind a computer screen or a hard training session instead of food though =)
    Nice post =)

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  5. lunadelmundo

    In my opinion, being in a relationship is not as ‘bad’ as it seems. Of course, we have our whole life ahead of us. Though, the objective of a relationship is to grow with that person ! I totally understand your point of view of not wanting it to be serious though as the days pass by, you think to yourself… Wait there’s an ending to this ? You don’t have to start planning the wedding, but it’s nice to know that your significant other will stick around πŸ™‚

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  6. naomi2elizabeth

    I had my first (and hopefully only) serious relationship at 20 and I don’t think I missed out by not having one before. Ok when I was a teenager I wished boys would fancy me but looking back, school relationships barely last and I feel like I benefited from not having a boyfriend. I did well at school and had time for lots of extra curricular activities. I had lots of friends male and female so I watched drama unfolding without being involved. Now I’m nearly 23 and happy with my first and only boyfriend. You’re definitely better off waiting until you find someone you really like. And that could happen at any time!

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    1. hideawaygirl

      Haha, thank you! I have a boyfriend and we’ve been together for about 3 months. It isn’t serious because I’m only a teenager but yeah, I guess if having a relationship makes you happy, go for it! πŸ™‚

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  7. Mystery Girl

    OMG I’VE NEVER RELATED TO A POST SO MUCH BEFORE IN MY LIFE. It’s post like this that make me rethink my choices, past (and current) relationships. I spent a year with this one guy, and he lived 74 miles from me (yes, 74!) That’s across 2 counties! We got to see each other once a month and it jsut wasn’t worth it! It caused me so much emotional stress! I guess I just thought I needed someone to cuddle, to share everything with, and because he was older, we kinda rushed things… But luckily it’s over now. But, because it caused so much emotional damage (which it shouldn’t have!) I rushed into another relationship (with my current boyfriend). It’s so stupid and I just want someone to understand and help! This post is something I really relate to.

    Thanks
    Mystery Girl x

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